If I may, Im Going To Introduce an Electrifying Element Into this Conversation for everyone Before & aFter my little lightning bolt…
lets strike At the heart of it,
1)people want what they desire because it Moves them Emotionally. period.
2) We’re all adults Knowing right from wrong,” should’s'” from “mustn’ts” or at the very least desirable from Undesirable; and all of this gets vaporized by the emotion of desire “in the moment …”

So your putting a huge Piece Of Chocolate cake on the coffee table 10 minutes before your teen daughters favorite shows come on and you leave the house leaving a note behind that says, “don’t eat this, call me for permission even though i might say no if you can get me on my cell phone right away. if not then you will have to wait to be possibly told no…. if i was the teen i would eat the cake & say the wind from the door blew the note under the entertainment center. (Not really… just punctuating there)…

Stealing is a childish short-sighted selfish Behavior so ..
What If You Reinforce The Behavior That You Desire With A Reward?
What would you want to receive for taking the high road? …think Stimulus/Response-

-An Actual Cyber-Valuable desirable “reward”: I.e. “Hall Of Fame” conduct Trust Recognition & Recommendation seal by From you for that behavior wether you say yes or not.
-Near Immediate Response turn around
-etc etc, what else would be the ideal outcome if you were asking permission….
these are just examples to get the readers thinking…
Im sure i must be spamming now… `,;-o

Oh one last thing.. If your mindset is attacking the the distinctions i presented above instead of launching forward from this principle with your own new possibilities or whatever other positive responses are possible, your wining in unison with a reactive collective waiting to be handed a solution. But that doesn’t sound like anyone who would hang out in here. Again Nice website…Now I Know Im spamming. sorry Catherine.. i was inspired to connect & contribute. Happy 2010 you Guys

Zues

P.s. Whats with the little happyface in the bottom righthand corner of this white field?

It’s difficult to keep control of, once you hit the publish button, your work is out there. I even had ‘right-click’ disabled on my site and my work was taken through the RSS feeder. I was fortunate enough to be able to sort my problem out, though I’m sure the day will come that I won’t be able to. Should anyone want to take my work and call it their own, I hope and trust that my work is distinctive enough to be recognised by my readers, and that it will always come back to me eventually.

Thank you for stopping by – I popped over to your blog and had a terrific time there, it was great fun!